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Why bother about 'Questions' ? - Rails Conf 2024 Lightning Talk

Why bother about 'Questions' ? - Rails Conf 2024 Lightning Talk

Life is full of questions. Our relationship with and use of questions are expressions of our culture.
Additionally, questions have the power to connect people with each other and the world they share. This talk is aimed to explore some real examples at work that make this possible through asking genuine questions. Lastly, we will also explore what asking questions has to do with building Psychological safety and working towards a shared purpose.

Mohnish G J

May 09, 2024
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  1. Some answers from team members - Engineer 1: ..Read other

    people’s mind - Engineer 2: ..Give smart answers always
  2. Other answers from team members - Engineering Manager: - ..Get

    people to understand each other automatically - My life as a manager would be so much more easier
  3. Other answers from team members - Engineer 3: - Work

    more collaboratively - Understand other people, the way they work -..Getting rid of poverty
  4. Quotes from ‘Questions’ book “Our relationship with and use of

    questions are expressions of our culture”
  5. “The technology of a question lies in the fact that

    it forces the issue at hand to reveal itself in a certain manner”
  6. These Questions were made to be.. * Safe * Non-invasive

    * Fun Ice Breaker Questions as Cards
  7. Where could I get to ask such questions at work?

    🤔 * Beginning of * Standup meetings * Answer a question + Share a work update * Can propose timeboxing responses would be nice * Other meetings * Retrospectives * Re fi nement meetings etc., 
 Universally * A person who doesn’t feel comfortable answering a question can simply say ‘pass’
  8. A personal realisation about asking ‘Genuine’ Questions 💡 Questions —>

    Get to know your team members better —> Trust —> Psychological Safety
  9. “..Questions have the power to connect people with each other

    and the world they share” 
 Pia Lauritzen’s TEDx talk
  10. Played an Empathy based Game(Cloud 4) using Questions(5Ws + How)

    at the Game Night at Rails Conf 2024 in Detroit
  11. Looking at the Question and Answers Holistically Answers: - Engineer

    1: ..Read other people’s mind - Engineer 2: ..Being able to give smart answers always - Manager: If I can get people to understand each other automatically without my having to explicitly do so, my life as a manager would be so much more easier/better.. - Engineer 3: Working more collaboratively, ..understanding other people, the way they work.., ..getting rid of poverty - Question: If you were a new superhero, what special powers would you have?
  12. Credits * Ber Flynn and the team at Equal Experts

    for the wonderful Ice Breaker Questions * Pia Lauritzen and her Book on Questions * https://www.strategy-business.com/blog/Six-reasons-successful-leaders-love-questions * Various people’s findings on Questions(Albert Einstein etc.,) Useful links * Equal Experts(EE) Ice Breaker cards can be found here * Getting to know the EE cards and the person behind them: https://www.equalexperts.com/blog/ee-life/icebreaker-cards/ * Random Ice Breaker Generator: https://icebreakers.equalexperts.com/ * Pia Lauritzen’s TEDx talk about Questions can be found here
  13. Thank you for holding the space to listen 🙂 Mohnish

    G Jadwani, Works as a Senior (Ruby) developer Github boddhisattva More about me https://www.mohnishjadwani.com/about/ Current Blog https://www.mohnishjadwani.com/ Old Blog https://medium.com/@mohnishgj Email [email protected] Personal User Manual http://bit.ly/personal_user_manual_mohnishgj LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/mohnish-jadwani-9a924619/