Above the Line - Speaker Deck

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Above the line

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Say, someone wants to be successful at something What would you recommend?

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Stay above the line

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Things I need to do to reach my goal Things that take me further away from my goal

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We all want to be happy Oppenheimer

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By me To me Things happen… Default mentality of the world. We call this victim mentality Responsible mentality We need to stay above the line!

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At the mercy of circumstances Take 100% responsibility Blaming others Blaming myself

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These two may look like they live “by me” But are still below the line. “To me” way of living Victimizer Victim Hero

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“To me” way of living Hero Victimizer Victim

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The best way to stay above the line Is to notice when you are below And then decide to move above the line!

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The biggest hurdle to stay above the line

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Open Curious Committed to learning Closed Defensive Committed to being right

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Unfairly treated Angry Stressed How do I notice you are fighting to be right? I feel… Sad Frustrated Do I want to be right or happy?

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“By me” way of living Everything is an opportunity to learn People are my ally Others actually have something to teach me There is enough for everyone I create solutions where everyone wins I treat others like they matter I have the resolution to this problem I am responsible for what I feel and think