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"What was she thinking when she wrote this terrible code?"

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"This feature is taking way too long to write."

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"These priorities are totally arbitrary."

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"How hard is it to write code that doesn't throw an exception?"

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"Hurry up and get to our ELK Kubernetes shipper tentacle! What's taking so long?"

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"Doesn't he have some beans to count so we can get back to the real work?"

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“She doesn’t seem committed to giving her full effort.”

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"There must have been a good reason for this code."

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"This feature is complicated. It has been challenging to get right."

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"Thanks for sharing with me the discovery experience. Let's work on these priorities."

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"I know there's a lot on the implementation checklist. May I help you review it?"

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"I know you're dealing with a lot of moving targets right now. I'll try to be patient."

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"What is my leader's good intent in asking me this question?"

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"She's usually on her game. I wonder how I can help."

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"Mans desires are limited by his perceptions; none can desire what he has not perceived." William Blake

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mind? intention? desire? do?

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give time generous listen first “Your leader owes you a conversation.”

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feel safe got their back "I want to feel like we could come and sit by each other at each others’ desk any time"

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care a lot open vulnerable "that emotion and intent behind it is really powerful"

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care personally for us

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look further purpose possibility

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share consumable "easy to think everyone knows"

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create a vision

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support “hard to go out on a limb… on your own”

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represent avoid overload side-by-side "It always feels like it takes so long if you're not the one doing the work."

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are advocates for us

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share trends collaborate talents

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bring us together

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space explore encourage "push them out the door; get out of the house; check out the back yard"

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stabilize dreams responsibility

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encourage our autonomy

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own challenges recognize leaders "remember to take time [for yourself]"

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coach us to grow

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inspire boundaries challenge “be in line with the org, but [have a] local culture”

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inspire innovation

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meta preserve evolve with purpose "the work will get done; I care most about the culture"

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care about the culture

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me?

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"Dwell in possibility" Emily Dickinson

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thank you