Baby Driven Development RubyConf

by Allison McMillan

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BDD: Baby Driven Development Allison McMillan @allie_p #babydrivendev

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Moms and Dads Both 5% Neither 30% Hurt 38% Helped 27% #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Dads Moms Both 8% Neither 13% Hurt 59% Helped 20% Both 3% Neither 41% Hurt 24% Helped 32% #babydrivendev @allie_p

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#babydrivendev @allie_p https://www.henrikkleven.com/uploads/3/7/3/1/37310663/kleven-landais-sogaard_nber-w24219_jan2018.pdf

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• Parental Leave Company #babydrivendev @allie_p

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• Parental Leave Company • Creative Working Options #babydrivendev @allie_p

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• Parental Leave Company • Creative Working Options • Support Systems #babydrivendev @allie_p

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• Parental Leave Company • Creative Working Options • Support Systems • Realistic Expectations #babydrivendev @allie_p

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• Parental Leave Company • Creative Working Options • Support Systems • Realistic Expectations • Don’t Make It Weird #babydrivendev @allie_p

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• Parental Leave • Creative Working Options • Support Systems • Realistic Expectations • Don’t Make It Weird Company #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Parent • Disappear Parent Guilt #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Parent • Disappear Parent Guilt • Get organized #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Parent • Disappear Parent Guilt • Get organized • Take self-care days #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Parent • Disappear Parent Guilt • Get organized • Take self-care days • Optimize the time you have available #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Parent • Disappear Parent Guilt • Get organized • Take self-care days • Optimize the time you have available • Talk to other parents #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Parent • Disappear Parent Guilt • Get organized • Take self-care days • Optimize the time you have available • Talk to other parents #babydrivendev @allie_p • Share that mental load

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Parent • Disappear Parent Guilt • Get organized • Take self-care days • Optimize the time you have available • Talk to other parents #babydrivendev @allie_p • Share that mental load • Leave If You Have To

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Parent • Disappear Parent Guilt • Get organized • Take self-care days • Optimize the time you have available • Talk to other parents • Leave If You Have To #babydrivendev @allie_p • Share that mental load

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Colleagues • Ask about leave policies #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Colleagues • Ask about leave policies • Ask about lactation rooms #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Colleagues • Ask about leave policies • Ask about lactation rooms • Ask how your colleague is doing and listen to the answer #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Colleagues • Ask about leave policies • Ask about lactation rooms • Ask how your colleague is doing and listen to the answer • Stand up in groups #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Colleagues • Ask about leave policies • Ask about lactation rooms • Ask how your colleague is doing and listen to the answer • Stand up in groups • Google it #babydrivendev @allie_p

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• Ask about leave policies • Ask about lactation rooms • Ask how your colleague is doing and listen to the answer • Stand up in groups Colleagues • Google it #babydrivendev @allie_p

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• InHerSight: https://www.inhersight.com/ • Fairy Godboss: https://fairygodboss.com/ • Parental leave repo (older resource): https://github.com/davedash/parental- leave Resources #babydrivendev @allie_p • Additional Resources: http:// daydreamsinruby.com/bdd-resources/

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@allie_p #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Just… High Fives. You’re Awesome. Be Conﬁdent! #babydrivendev @allie_p

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Thank you #babydrivendev @allie_p @allie_p [email protected] https://atom.io/ www.daydreamsinruby.com www.parentdrivendevelopment.com