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Baby Driven Development RubyConf

Allison McMillan
November 14, 2018
Technology
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Baby Driven Development RubyConf

When I became a parent, I was completely unprepared for the challenges that awaited me. I reached out to hundreds of fellow parents in tech and learned there are common challenges that simply aren’t spoken about. These focus around one fact that no one wants to admit... parenting is not fun. Parenting is stressful, difficult, and oftentimes incredibly lonely. But being a parent also makes people more organized, focused, and empathetic. We’ll explore these survey results to expose common trends and issues and discuss solutions that show how supporting parents helps all team members thrive.

Allison McMillan

November 14, 2018
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  45. Moms and Dads
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    5%
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    Hurt
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    Helped
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  46. Dads
    Moms
    Both
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    Hurt
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  53. • Parental Leave
    Company
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  58. • Parental Leave
    Company
    • Creative Working Options
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  64. • Parental Leave
    Company
    • Creative Working Options
    • Support Systems
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  68. • Parental Leave
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  73. • Parental Leave
    Company
    • Creative Working Options
    • Support Systems
    • Realistic Expectations
    • Don’t Make It Weird
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  78. • Parental Leave
    • Creative Working Options
    • Support Systems
    • Realistic Expectations
    • Don’t Make It Weird
    Company
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  83. Parent
    • Disappear Parent Guilt
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  87. Parent
    • Disappear Parent Guilt
    • Get organized
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  91. Parent
    • Disappear Parent Guilt
    • Get organized
    • Take self-care days
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  95. Parent
    • Disappear Parent Guilt
    • Get organized
    • Take self-care days
    • Optimize the time you have
    available
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  98. Parent
    • Disappear Parent Guilt
    • Get organized
    • Take self-care days
    • Optimize the time you have
    available
    • Talk to other parents
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  102. Parent
    • Disappear Parent Guilt
    • Get organized
    • Take self-care days
    • Optimize the time you have
    available
    • Talk to other parents
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    • Share that mental load

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    • Disappear Parent Guilt
    • Get organized
    • Take self-care days
    • Optimize the time you have
    available
    • Talk to other parents
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    • Share that mental load
    • Leave If You Have To

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  112. Parent
    • Disappear Parent Guilt
    • Get organized
    • Take self-care days
    • Optimize the time you have
    available
    • Talk to other parents
    • Leave If You Have To
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    • Share that mental load

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  116. Colleagues
    • Ask about leave policies
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  118. Colleagues
    • Ask about leave policies
    • Ask about lactation rooms
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  121. Colleagues
    • Ask about leave policies
    • Ask about lactation rooms
    • Ask how your colleague is
    doing and listen to the answer
    #babydrivendev
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  123. Colleagues
    • Ask about leave policies
    • Ask about lactation rooms
    • Ask how your colleague is
    doing and listen to the answer
    • Stand up in groups
    #babydrivendev
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  126. Colleagues
    • Ask about leave policies
    • Ask about lactation rooms
    • Ask how your colleague is
    doing and listen to the answer
    • Stand up in groups
    • Google it
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  128. • Ask about leave policies
    • Ask about lactation rooms
    • Ask how your colleague is
    doing and listen to the answer
    • Stand up in groups
    Colleagues
    • Google it
    #babydrivendev
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  131. • InHerSight: https://www.inhersight.com/
    • Fairy Godboss: https://fairygodboss.com/
    • Parental leave repo (older resource):
    https://github.com/davedash/parental-
    leave
    Resources
    #babydrivendev
    @allie_p
    • Additional Resources: http://
    daydreamsinruby.com/bdd-resources/

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  138. @allie_p
    #babydrivendev
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  139. Just…
    High Fives.
    You’re Awesome.
    Be Confident!
    #babydrivendev
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  140. Thank you
    #babydrivendev
    @allie_p
    @allie_p [email protected]
    https://atom.io/ www.daydreamsinruby.com
    www.parentdrivendevelopment.com

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