triage tools to op:mize his email a<en:on budget because mismatch between the kind of a<en:on a conversa:on deserves and the presence he delivers creates stress.
“totally outdated”: “I don’t know, it’s like nostalgic. I don’t want to unsubscribe from them. But I also don’t want to get their emails.” – Donny • “There’s all sorts of things…requests that will take me 2 hours or 2 days to fulfill. Am I supposed to stop and do that now?” –Dave • “I’ll go through and delete them all first [the “everything else” category] and then I’ll go back to what I actually want to read” –Mike