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A talk about talks

A talk about talks

How my first public talk went and the lessons I learnt from it and why more of us should conquer our fears and try speaking

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October 10, 2013
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  1. A talk about talks
    Second Wednesday - Nottingham
    October 2013
    Thursday, 10 October

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  2. Creative Director @Offroadcode
    I tweet a lot from @welcomebrand
    I also sell kitchen knives @cutedgeknives
    James Young
    Thursday, 10 October

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  3. What is this about?
    • What I remember from my first talk
    • Why I now actually quite like talking
    • Why lots of people don’t
    • Why you should give it a go
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  4. My first talk
    The things you learn when
    you’re the client
    Hybrid Conference - August 2013, Cardiff
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  5. Oh the nerves ....
    • 6 months to worry
    • 20 minute talk
    • 150+ attendees
    • Sharing a conference with some very
    experienced speakers
    • Worrying about all the tech and setup
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  6. Photo http://www.flickr.com/photos/alpower/sets/72157635123084067/
    The longest 20 minutes of my life
    Thursday, 10 October

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  7. Afterwards
    • Total elation and relief
    • Facepalm at not checking my slides were fullscreen
    • Thrilled people took something from the talk
    • Meeting some amazing attendees and fellow speakers
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  8. So why don’t more of us talk?
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  9. Never spoken at a web conf/event/meetup?
    Are there any fears/reasons you've not tried yet?
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  10. The fears are all pretty common
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  11. Mainly the fear of not being
    able to properly explain
    what I'm talking about.
    https://twitter.com/kaelifa/status/383183922000973824
    Concern #1: Not being clear enough
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  12. Lack of confidence in front
    of crowds and sounding
    like a complete idiot.
    https://twitter.com/FreelanceNathan/status/383224867455516672
    Concern #2: Making a total balls of it
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  13. Impostor syndrome.
    I wouldn't have the confidence to
    believe I know what I'm talking about.
    https://twitter.com/samshupac/status/383185554378354688
    Concern #3: Impostor syndrome
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  14. I stutter / slur a bit when
    nervous, plus my accent.
    https://twitter.com/thecodezombie/status/383190390695661568
    Concern #4: Something wrong with my voice, accent or appearance
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  15. https://twitter.com/benhowdle/status/367964684093513728
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  16. Not so much ...
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  17. Most of these things can be overcome with practice
    Don’t worry!
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  18. You can be one by sharing your experiences and stories.
    The Expert
    • Outline a problem or share a story personal to you
    • Share your solution or attempts at a solution
    • People like hearing about success, but love failure stories!
    • “It depends”
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  19. Selling chef knives
    • Know more than most of customers
    • Accept that some people know more than us
    • Keep learning!
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  20. I’d rather [_______________________]
    than speak in public
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  21. 61 miles....
    I’d rather run here instead of talk in public
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  22. I need a
    volunteer...
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  23. That went well! / Oh dear ...
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  24. What can you take from this?
    • Speaking can be scary but those fears can be managed
    • It’s a great way to expand your horizons and make new contacts
    • It’s easier to socialise at a conference when you’ve done a talk
    • It’s up to a conference organiser to decide if your talk is suitable
    • Give it a go, you’ll feel awesome after!
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  25. Thank you
    James Young
    @welcomebrand & @Offroadcode
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  26. Some resources & reading
    On Speaking - http://bradfrostweb.com/blog/post/on-speaking/
    Speaking & Me - http://www.robertmills.me/speaking-and-me/
    Feeling of Speaking - https://medium.com/this-happened-to-me/10dee43951d5
    Giving your first talk - http://chadtomkiss.co.uk/post/56966187874/giving-your-first-talk
    Life on the other side - http://www.sazzy.co.uk/2011/01/life-on-the-other-side/
    “Glossophobia” - The fear of public speaking - http://www.glossophobia.com/
    Some more good news ....
    No real evidence people are more afraid of speaking than dying - http://www.quora.com/Is-there-
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