Authentic Developer

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1. T H E A U T H E N T I C D E V E L O P E R A N A S TA S I A L O P E Z @ A N A S TA S I A L O P E Z D
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8. Have you ever feared that someone would realise that you don’t really know what you are doing?
9. Do you avoid writing blog posts or doing talks because you think you have nothing to say?
10. Do you sometimes shy away from asking questions for fear of it being a stupid question?
11. Have you ever felt like an imposter?
13. S H A M E
14. S H A M E Shame is my boss calling me an idiot in front of everyone at work Shame is hiding the fact that I didn’t go to university (or study computer science) Shame is being laughed at for being different Shame is hiding my religion because no one shares the same one at work Shame is pretending to understand the javascript jokes
16. V U L N E R A B I L I T Y
19. U N D E R S TA N D Y O U R S H A M E
20. S H A M E T R I G G E R S I want to be perceived as… I don’t want to be perceived as…
21. S H A M E T R I G G E R S Where are these expectations coming from? How realistic are these expectations? Can I be all those things at the same time?
22. S H A M E T R I G G E R S Am I describing who I want to be or who society wants me to be?
24. S T O P T RY I N G T O F I T I N
25. I A M N O T J U S T M Y W O R K
26. F I LT E R I N G C R I T I C I S M
27. A C C E P T Y O U A R E N O T P E R F E C T Wabi-sabi (not to be confused with wasabi) (n.) the discovery of beauty in imperfection; the acceptance of the cycle of life and death.
28. A U T H E N T I C I T Y I S T H E S H A R I N G O F S E L F B Y R E L AT I N G I N A N AT U R A L , S I N C E R E , S P O N TA N E O U S , O P E N A N D G E N U I N E M A N N E R
29. N AT U R A L S I N C E R E S P O N TA N E O U S O P E N G E N U I N E
30. S E L F - C O M PA S S I O N
31. S E L F - K I N D N E S S
32. C O M M O N H U M A N I T Y
33. M I N D F U L N E S S
34. S E L F - C O M PA S S I O N www.self-compassion.org
35. H E L P O T H E R S
36. N O F E I G N S U R P R I S E
37. W T F C O D E R E V I E W S
38. E M PAT H Y
39. S E E T H E W O R L D H O W O T H E R S S E E I T
40. B E N O N - J U D G M E N TA L
41. U N D E R S TA N D T H E P E R S O N ' S F E E L I N G S
42. C O M M U N I C AT E T H AT Y O U U N D E R S TA N D
44. S P E A K O U T
45. S P E A K O U T ! = C R I T I C I S E
46. S P E A K O U T - O W N I T
47. S P E A K O U T - P R O T E C T T H E C U LT U R E
48. S P E A K O U T - I D O N ’ T K N O W
49. S P E A K O U T - Q U E S T I O N E V E RY T H I N G
50. S P E A K O U T - N O R M A L I S E D I S C O M F O R T
51. S P E A K O U T - Y O U R S T O RY
52. A U T H E N T I C I T Y I S T H E S H A R I N G O F S E L F B Y R E L AT I N G I N A N AT U R A L , S I N C E R E , S P O N TA N E O U S , O P E N A N D G E N U I N E M A N N E R
53. S I N C E R E O P E N
54. M A K E A D I F F E R E N C E