Familying Framework towards Purposeful Familying

This slides are part of the presentation on Familying Framework® by Coach Maria and Coach Fahmi in their efforts to strengthen family institutions, towards a better nation, one family at a time. All rights reserved @Familying Resources / Family F.I.RE.

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1. Ber famili dengan Matlamat Family-ing With Purpose http://about.me/mariamarzuki
2. One   Of   My   Current   Life   Goals  
4. Our  thinking  as  typical  parents   –  Raising  Righteous  Children  
5. Our  concerns  many  years  back     –  Raising  Children  and  shaping  their  character   ü  OUR  ROLE  AS  KHALIFAH  OF  ALLAH  (2:30)   ü  THE  PROCEDURE  FOR  SHAPING  CHARACTER   ü  LAWS  OF  LEARNING   ü  REWARD  &  PUNISHMENT   Y2K,  We  found  a   fantas0c  PARENTING   method!  
6. Pergi  solat  cepat.   Kalau  tak  solat   masuk  neraka!   Cepat  solat  nak,   Allah  sayaaang   orang  yang  solat!   Dari:   Keà  
7. Wahai  orang-­‐orang  yang  beriman!  Peliharalah  diri  kamu  dan  keluarga   kamu  dari  neraka  yang  bahan-­‐bahan  bakarannya:  manusia  dan  batu  (berhala);  neraka  itu   dijaga  dan  dikawal  oleh  malaikat-­‐malaikat  yang  keras  kasar  (layanannya);  mereka  Wdak   menderhaka  kepada  Allah  dalam  segala  yang  diperintahkanNya  kepada  mereka,  dan  mereka   pula  tetap  melakukan  segala  yang  diperintahkan.   (At-­‐Tahriim  66:6)   Iaitu  Syurga  yang  kekal  yang  mereka  akan  memasukinya  bersama-­‐sama   orang-­‐orang  yang  mengerjakan  amal  soleh  dari  ibu  bapa  mereka  dan   isteri-­‐isteri  mereka  serta  anak-­‐anak  mereka;  sedang  malaikat-­‐malaikat  pula   akan  masuk  kepada  mereka  dari  Wap-­‐Wap  pintu;  -­‐   (Ar-­‐Ra'd  13:23)  
8. Cepat  solat  nak,   Allah  sayaaang   orang  yang  solat!   Dari:   Keà   Change of Script From You-vs-Me to WE Jom  solat  sama-­‐ sama,  supaya  kita   berkeluarga  dari   dunia  ke  syurga  
9. Offspring   Parents  and   grandparents   Siblings   Extended   Families   Husband  &  Wife  
10. Family-ing BERFAMILI  DENGAN  MATLAMAT   Fokus  kami  berhijrah,  dari  ParenWng  ke…  
11. From Me to We Abundant & balanced Living Mission Together 1st, The Family Leave Family Legacy Y not? Integrate Differences Ink Family Identity Now is what we have Greatness starts with US The Family-ing Philosophy®
13. •  Penuhi  Keperluan   •  Seimbang/Stabil   •  CAPAI  TUJUAN!   Bersatu  kita   teguh.   Bermatlamat   lebih  kukuh!  
15. CHOOSE  TO   P  L  A  N   For  the  most  important  organizaAon  of  your  life!  
16. Business Framework Business Systems Corporate Identity Shareholders Financial Model Family Framework Family Systems Family Identity Family Members Family Finances Business  vs  Family  OrganizaAon  
17. Family Direction Family Identity Family Legacy FAMILYING GREATNESS!
18. What  kind  of  family  do   we  want  to  be?   How are we guided? Which routines do we focus on? What can we do to benefit others? Four  Vital  Ques0ons  
19. Strategic   DirecWon   Core Values Productive Steps Proactive Steps Four  Core  Elements  
20. Halatuju  famili   Yang  jelas   Nilai Murni Famili yang Hidup Kehidupan harian yang tersusun dan sistematik Perjalanan berfamili yang terancang + Famili Identiti Struktur  Asas  Famili  Bermatlamat  
21. Have  Family  Vision   (Magic  Statement)   D es i g n Fa m i ly Va lue Ca n va s I nvest  i n   F a mi l y  S yu ku r   B o x   Develop Family F.I.R.E agenda Establish Family Projects Schedule  Strategic  Family  MeeWngs   SoluAon  to  build  Family  with  Purpose  
22. Fizikal Intelek Rohani Emosi Famili F.I.R.E fitness righteousness emotion intelligence
23. Tips Tools Techniques Proactive Steps towards Familying Greatness AdaptaAon  from  OrganizaAonal  Management.   OUR  STORY  J  
24. Have  Family  Vision   (Magic  Statement)   D es i g n Fa m i ly Va lue Ca n va s I nvest  i n   F a mi l y  S yu ku r   B o x   Develop Family F.I.R.E agenda Establish Family Projects Schedule  Strategic  Family  MeeWngs   2   3   1   4   5  
25. 1   Skill  to  improve:  Syura  +  Communica=on  
26. amili   ather   ( fi g u r e )   Skill  to  improve:  Leadership  
27. 2   Skill  to  improve:  Think  Long  Term,  Goal  SeCng  
28. Now is what we have 3   Skill  to  improve:  Priori=za=on;  Produc=vity  
30. Komitmen Famili ______________________ untuk melalui Ramadhan Eliminate/Hapuskan     Raise/Tingkatkan   Create  Famlying  AkWviW  Baru  J   Reduce/Kurangkan  
31. Skill  to  improve:   Quran  Engagement;  Communica=on  
34. Skill  to  improve:   Faith  Management   Issue  Management  
35. I - Improvements Kekuatan keluarga sudah dikenalpasti. Peluang keluarga terlihat jelas. Senaraikan langkah spesifik yang anda sekeluarga mahu laksanakan sekarang bagi merealisasikan peluang tersebut? F – FAITH Tuliskan FAITH STATEMENT keluarga anda: Kami akan menambahkan keyakinan kami terhadap ___________________________ ___________________________________ ___________________________________ S – Strength Apakah kekuatan yang ada pada famili anda yang menjadi faktor utama kebersamaan anda sekeluarga selama ini? J O - OPPORTUNITY Apabila anda mampu mencapai Matlamat Famili hasil usaha bersama, peluang apakah yang menanti anda sefamili? Apakah peluang yang menanti anda sekeluarga apabila isu yang sedang dihadapi dapat diatasi?
36. Mendengar  dengan  HATI         Anda  mendengar   dengan  niat  untuk   memahami  atau   untuk  menjawab  ?   Sense  of  WE  bermula  di  sini   5 Empathic Listening WITHIN THE OTHER’S FRAME OF REFERENCE 4 Attentive Listening 3 Selective Listening 2 Pretend Listening 1 Ignoring WITHIN ONE’S OWN FRAME OF REFERENCE
37. Abundant Living N o w i s w h a t w e h a v e Greatness starts with US 4   Skill  to  improve:   ACtude  of  Gra=tude  
38. 30-­‐03-­‐2013   38   4  
39. Family Members -  Your household -  Extended families
40. Family Values
41. How to Deliver the values?
42. Family Value Canvas Apakah  nilai  murni  yang   menjadi  pegangan  hidup   saya  selama  ini?   Apakah  akWviW  nilai  murni  yang   saya  mahu  famili  saya   utamakan?   Apakah  akWviW  famili  yang   boleh  dilaksanakan  bagi   menerapkan  nilai  murni   famili?  
43. Leave Family Legacy Ink Family Identity 5   Skill  to  improve:   ACtude  of  Servitude   Project  Management   What cause is your family organization fighting for?
46. 21 Jan 2012 PPAS
48. LPPKN COACH-THE-COACHES NOVEMBER 2012
50. FAMILY FIRE TALK Johor Baru 29-Dec-2012
51. Corporate  Talk  
53. FAMILY FIRE Session PIBG SRI Seremban
55. Towards a better nation, one family at a time.
56. Membina Halatuju Famili yang Jelas Berfamili dengan Matlamat Famili Memperkaya Famili lain Menikmati Kehebatan Berfamili 1 2 3 4
57. Family  F.I.R.E   public  events   (beyond  Klang  Valley)   LPPKN  Coach-­‐ the-­‐Coach   Familying@Work  for   government   agencies  and  private   companies.   ‘Family-­‐friendly   Organiza0ons’   FRAMEWORK     for  Malaysia   Family   F.I.R.E   “GPS   Portal”   ‘Malaysia’s  Top   Family-­‐friendly   Organiza0ons’   Annual  Award   Services   1   2   3   4   5  
58. Measurable Objective: 1000 Families have clear and documented Family-ing Framework by 2015 Family  F.I.R.E   public  and  in-­‐house   programs   1  
59. Familying@Work  for   government   agencies  and  private   companies.   2   Unique STAFF-FAMILY Engagement Corporate Talks for Staff & Families
60. ‘Family-­‐friendly   Organiza0ons’   FRAMEWORK     for  Malaysia   ‘Malaysia’s  Top   Family-­‐friendly   Organiza0ons’   Award  /   Cer0fied   3   4   Family-­‐ Work   Balance  
61. The  whole  idea  is  applying  the   concept  of  business  dashboard   to  manage   family  strategic  direc0on   development,   progress,   &  learning  cycle.   Family   F.I.R.E   “GPS   Portal”   5  
62. From Me to We Abundant & balanced Living Mission Together 1st, The Family Leave Family Legacy Y not? Integrate Differences Ink Family Identity Now is what we have Greatness starts with US Great   Individuals   Great   Family   Great   Society   Great   Na0on  
63. P S R A C Sense of WE Plan WE- Agenda Arrange WE- Priorities Realize WE- Progress Celebrate WE- Greatness Build a clear family direction together. Practice tips, tools and technique to enrich Family-ing Activities. Appreciate each other abundantly . Customised Session >> Personalise Coaching
64. Family-ing with Purpose Coach  Maria  &  Coach  Fahmi   012-­‐292-­‐5820      /      012-­‐204-­‐5820     familyfirecoach@gmail.com   FB/ourfamilyfire   PA SSIO N FO R PA RA D ISE