Caning workshop

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1. Canes  
2. Disclaimer   •  I’m  just  a  random  kinkster   •  This  is  my  opinion  only!   •  Hit  people  consensually  and  carefully.   •  I’m  not  responsible  if  you  take  this  informa>on   and  injure  people  with  it   •  Please  don’t  sue  me!  
3. What’s  your  mo>va>on?   •  Symbolism  vs  Sensa>on   •  D/s  vs  SM   •  ‘it’s  supposed  to  hurt’   •  Ero>cism  vs  Realism   •  Co-­‐opera>on  vs  Coercion   •  Sex  vs  No  Sex   •  Schoolies  vs  BDSMers  
4. Schoolies   Six  of  the  best!  
5. Aesthe>cs  (look  at  the  lines!)   She’s  ever  so  pleased  with  herself!  
6. Many  role  play  possibili>es!   Mad  scien>st….?   Naughty  maid!  
7. General  perversion   I  think  this  one  was  just  a  random  sexy  free-­‐for-­‐all   I’m  sure  this  one  had  some  sort   of  narra>ve…  
8. Cane  Selec>on   •  Check  for  splits  or  defects   •  Rounded  end  –  avoid  cuts   •  Length:   – Shorter  length  is  easier  to  control   – Longer  length  gives  you  more  power  (because   physics)   •  Natural  flex  and  orienta>on  –  work  with  the   curve  
9. Types  of  Canes   •  Synthe>c  vs  Natural   •  Don’t  use  bamboo  (garden  canes)   •  Most  natural  canes  sold  are  raXan   •  More  dense  “dragon”  and  less  dense   “kooboo”   •  “Singapores”  are  of  specific  size  and  mass   •  Most  of  this  is  actually  just  marke>ng   •  Also  available:  willow/hazel  switches  (free!   But  single  person  use  only)  
10. Posi>oning  the  Vic>m   •  Bending  over   •  Lying  down   •  Standing  up   •  Suspended  from  the  ceiling  (I  guess…)   •  Consider  their  comfort  and  safety   •  Be  aware  of  bystanders  
11. Posi>oning  the  Caner   •  Cane  needs  to  land  square  on   •  Change  your  stance  instead  of  your  natural   swing   •  Allow  for  flex  of  the  cane  to  avoid  wrap   •  Your  arm  probably  will  stretch  on  swing,  so   aim  slightly  short  
12. Where  to  Hit   •  For  light  strokes,  preXy  much  anywhere  fleshy.   (use  common  sense  and  cau>on)   •  BuXock  caning  –  be  aware  of  the  coccyx  and   do  not  hit  it!  Bent  over  posi>ons  help.   •  Use  caning  pads  to  start  with.  They  are   essen>al  for  high  intensity  hits  no  maXer  who   you  are  (accidents  can  happen)   •  Accuracy:  hit  where  you  intend.   •  Intensity:  different  body  parts  process  pain   differently  
13. Building  up  to  hard  strokes   •  Focus  on  the  wrist  flick  first.   •  Add  in  gradually:   – Just  wrist  (put  a  book  under  your  arm  or  posi>on   yourself  near  a  wall)   – Elbow  and  wrist   – Shoulder,  elbow  and  wrist   – Body  rota>on,  shoulder,  elbow,  wrist   •  Do  not  play  beyond  your  skill  level  
14. Building  up  to  hard  strokes   •  Land  the  cane  flat   – ‘slicing’  strokes  will  abrade/cut  skin   – do  not  swing  through  like  a  belt  or  strap   •  Land  the  cane  square   – avoid  wrapping   – reduce  risk  of  canes  breaking  
15. Crea>ng  a  Good  Scene   •  Style   – Role  play?  Sensa>on?  Control?  Just  prac>sing?   •  Pacing   – Surf  the  endorphin  rush!  Watch  partner’s  bodily   feedback:  breathing,  shoulders,  temperature   – Increase  intensity  by  having  less  >me  between   strokes   – Warm  up?  Varia>on  of  implements/sensa>ons   •  Form   – Close/personal  or  formal/remote?   – Prac>cality  of  heavy  strokes  will  require  a  more   distant  approach    
16. Aeercare  (physical)   •  Watch  for  skin  damage   – Abrasions/cuts   – Bleeding   – Bruising   •  Can  use  blister  plasters  (pre-­‐emp>vely)  over   abrasions  or  weak  spots   •  Your  skin  is  s>ll  healing  even  if  marks  are   gone!  Heavy  masos:  play  the  long  game   •  Wipe  down  your  canes  aeer  use.     Wipe  them  before  use  if  you  oeen  put  them  on  the  floor!  
17. Beware!   •  Heavy  bruising  may  take  several  hours  (or   days)  before  appearing  ESPECIALLY  the  first   >me  you  play.   •  This  photo  was  taken  about     30  mins  aeerwards   •  Implement  used  was  a  tree   switch,  to  the  front  of   the  thighs  (first  >me  being   hit  there)   •  Some  bruising  apparent.   Note  the  crossed  strokes  
18. Beware!   •  This  is  aeer  3  days.  
19. Beware!   •  Day  5  
20. Further  Resources   •  Links  to  more  resources  on  M’s  FetLife  profile   •  Fabulously  sexy  porn  and  competent  caning  at   Pandora  Blake’s  DreamsOfSpanking.com   Just  look  at  her  happy  caning  face