Unintrovertable

Many writers are introverts. But this can be detrimental to writing, getting published, and interacting with your readers. This class discusses how the introvert's brain works and gives you tools to help you deal with being an introvert so that you can talk to that agent, publisher, or group of fans.

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1. UNINTROVERTABLE Craig Kingsman
3. Today’s Presentation The introvert’s brain The introvert’s two biggest fears and what to do about them http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
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11. Introvert Strengths Introverts often focus on depth because of their capacity to reflect and think things through deeply. Focus on depth Writing is a solitary activity. And for introverts, it gives them the time and space to think and edit. Communicate well through writing It’s important to create the space and time to write. Introverts work well alone http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
12. Introvert Weaknesses To become a successful writer, you have to market your work. This means self-promotion and interacting with your readers. Overwhelmed by demands of marketing Introverts tend to be self-reliant. Self-reliance will take you only so far. Therefore, learn to ask for help when you need it. Find it difficult to ask for help The best way to access more readers is to build your personal brand. Use your name as your brand and domain name. Dislike being associated with their brand http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
13. Reality check It’s perfectly normal Ignore your self- talk Don’t sell yourself short https://stevelaube.com/the-introverted-writer/
16. Anxiety will increase over time Anxiety is dangerous Anxiety worsens performance People will judge you negatively Avoid the situation Practice so you know everything Write down your talk and read it Don’t ask for questions Sit out of leader’s line of sight Hide your nervousness Picture audience naked Analyze what you did “The Confident Speaker” by Harrison Monarth & Larina Kase
17. Make a list of your fears You do not need to be an expert Prepare Rehearse
18. Types of Speaking Impromptu • Community • Conference • Publisher • Agent Pre-planned • Community • Publisher • Agent • Launch • Signing • Reading • Conference
19. Where Do You Speak? Community • Chapter • Critique • Book Club Pitch • Agent • Publisher Event • Launch • Signing • Reading Conference • Presenter • Attendee
20. It’s Like Writing Beginning Tell them what you’re going to tell them Middle Tell them End Tell them what you told them
21. It’s Like Writing Draw a Roadmap Using amazingly zippy words Edit and re-edit Find a beta audience Effortless
22. THE ANTANGONIST
23. THE PROTAGONIST
24. Make a list of your fears You do not need to be an expert Prepare Rehearse
27. Community Chapter meetings Critique groups Book clubs Write-ins Conferences http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
28. Tips for Writer’s Conferences Stay at conference hotel Find ways to network on your own terms Set goals When in doubt, ask a question Open up to everything the conference offers http://www.betternovelproject.com/blog/writers-conference-introvert/
29. Selling and Marketing When asked what your book is about be clear and confident when responding. People get excited when you share with clarity, passion, and conviction A well-written but poorly marketed book will never get the attention it deserves An in-person connection is longer-lasting and have more meaning than online connections. Nail your elevator pitch to talk about your book Find the ones that work best for you. Don’t be on every social media platform Not every post should sell your work, but it is selling you. Don’t be a walking ad. Use context when posting Your readers want you to keep content fresh. At a minimum weekly blog and Facebook posts. Twitter more often. Pace yourself – be consistent when posting value added content http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
32. Best Ways to Network for Introvert Writers Join a Facebook Group Blog about your creative passion Start Tweeting Get to know Goodreads Real life screenwritingumagazine.com/2017/02/07/5-best-ways-network-introvert-writers
33. Writing • Negotiate with those you share space with, so you’ll not be disturbed while your write. • Get rid of the distractions you can control such as phone and email. Create a physical space where you can write consistently • A writing retreat is one option. At a writing retreat, you get the time for focused writing. • Pause in between writing to reflect and rejuvenate. • Use sprints to help keep you focused. You may need to get away to make space for your writing, so you can honor writing commitments • Morning: Writing • Afternoon: Reading, research, and basic editing • Evening: Relaxing Break up the day • Make time for other people. • Show an interest in what others are doing. To write well you have to feed the mind http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
35. Self Care Stay physically fit Exercise keeps the mind sharp. Get your 10,000 steps in each day. Eat well Eating healthy coupled with exercise give you the energy to write well and contributes to sharper attention. Go to bed Get enough sleep, so you’re rested. Enjoy life Take time to have fun. Take planned breaks Take vacations and long weekends. Even much shorter breaks can create distance from your writing. Soul care Take time for silence, centering, and listening. http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
36. What We Talked About The introvert’s brain • Longer neural pathways leading to internal thoughts and feelings • Less stimulation to stay awake • Less dopamine to feel happy • Less excitement from surprise or risk • Process everything, pay more attention to all details • Active dialog and many thoughts in mind http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
37. What We Talked About Public speaking •Top 12 myths •It’s like writing a book •Preparation •Practice http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
38. What We Talked About Groups • Community • Selling & Marketing • Pitch • Readings • Networking • Prepare • Practice http://birdsontheblog.co.uk/introvert-writer-jamie-arpin-ricci/
39. CONTACT / QUESTIONS craigkingsman@outlook.com @kingsmanbooks www.craigkingsman.com www.facebook.com/kingsmanbooks www.speakerdeck.com/craigkingsman speakerrate.com/craigkingsman