understand someone’s symptoms, and pain if you want to cure them. You need to understand someone’s expectations if you going to meet them. You need to understand someone’s enemies if you want to defeat them.
and family members It’s much easier to empathize with co-workers that you work with on daily basis, than the ones you don’t Why do people pick sides? Why do they side with each other even during disagreements and challenges? Shared experiences
don’t always talk shop. Family, Hobbies, or things you are interested in. This can be technology, and solutions that you are not currently using. Try not to assume the worst intention possible from a person. Leave your work. How you would like to have found it if you were taking over from someone else.