Being Nice is Nice

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July 14, 2015

Being Nice is Nice

Programming is a social activity. An Open Source community is all about the interactions between multiple opinions. Trying to come at every interaction with a positive perspective is hard, but worth it.

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July 14, 2015
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  1. BEING NICE IS Design Dictator @ CocoaPods Head of Mobile

    @ Artsy @Orta
  2. Design Dictator @ CocoaPods Head of Mobile @ Artsy @Orta

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  3. Programming is social

  4. DANGER MCSHANE

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  6. Being a jerk

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  11. Normal Person Anonymity audience + + = Total Jerkface

  12. relatively Normal Person + perceived priv acy + yes people

    audience http://marocharim.com/2010/11/02/fuckwad-effects/ http://marocharim.com/2010/11/02/fuckwad-effects/ = Total Jerkface
  13. Friction is easy

  14. Friction gets followers

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  17. that’s not as funny/ smart as you think it is

  18. Nice is HARD

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  21. […] I spent many hours with this and I will

    give up without your help. an email from a few days ago
  22. Empathy

  23. POSITIVE REINforcement

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  30. no-one is alw ays in a good mood Let’s not

    set the wrong expectations
  31. I’m not alw ays in a good mood

  32. Where can you get some good advice?

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  35. TLDR

  36. People Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain. Give honest sincere appreciation.

  37. ARGUMENTS Avoid at all costs Never say, “You’re wrong.” If

    you are wrong, admit it quickly.
  38. Being A Leader Ask questions instead of orders. Praise every

    improvement. Give someone a reputation to live up to.
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  41. @orta