Programming is a social activity. An Open Source community is all about the interactions between multiple opinions. Trying to come at every interaction with a positive perspective is hard, but worth it.
relatively Normal Person + perceived priv acy + yes people audience http://marocharim.com/2010/11/02/fuckwad-effects/ http://marocharim.com/2010/11/02/fuckwad-effects/ = Total Jerkface