Topic 3 - Lessons from Quran Sunnah

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2. Our Amanah As Parents
3. Every one of you is a shepherd… . Abdullah ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, “Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband’s home and his children and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.”
4. Children are Born in Fitrah ! ُ # ُّ % َ ' ْ ) ُ ' *ٍ ,- ُ ' . َ /ُ 0 َ 1 2 3 4 ْ 5 6 ِ 8 ْ 9َ : ; ِ < 6َ = َٔ ,? َ ' َ 3 : ُ @- ُ Aَ ' ِّ * َ 3 ,6 ِ Bِ 3 َٔ C ْ D- ُ E6َ F ِّ 9َ 3 ,6 ِ Bِ 3 َٔ C ْ G-ُ H َ I? ِّ Jَ = ,6 ِ Bِ Every child that is born, is born upon the Fitrah, but his parents make him a Jew, a Christian, or a Zoroastrian.
5. Parents are to take care of …… Physical needs Intellectual needs Moral/Spiritual needs
6. Physical Needs And if they breastfeed for you, then give them their payment (At-Talaq: 6) ! "َ $ِٕ ' ْ ) َٔ +ْ , "َ -ْ . َ / َ 0 ُ 2 ْ ! "َ $ ٓ 45ُ 6 7 ُ . َّ ) ُٔ 9 : ُ 6 +َ 7 ُ . َّ To provide nafkah is WAJIB Food Clothes Shelter
7. Intellectual Needs Teach them with necessary knowledge Start with “Ilmu hal” ! " # $ $ ٔ # & ' ( ) * +, - . / 0 ' 1 2 # 3 * $ ٔ +, 45 - ء 7 8, 9 ... “Command your children to pray when they become seven years old….”
8. Moral / Spiritual Needs ! ٔ # $% & ! ! ٔ ' ( ) # * + ' ! ٔ , - ./ & ! ! ٔ # 0% 1 + . ) 2 ' ! 3 ! 4% 5 6 7 , % 8 9 ( Teach your children Adab and improve their adab (values)
9. Guilt from Quranic Perspective
10. Human Beings Make Mistakes ! " # $% & # ٓ ( ) * + , - . ٔ . 0 . 1 + 23 4 # 5 6 + , - 7ٔ 83 & # 9 :; < # 7% < 0 Everybody makes mistakes, and the best among them are those who repent.
11. !ِٕ $ َّ ! ' ( َّ ) َ *+ ُ -ِ . / ُّ ! ' 01َّ 2 َّ ! 3/ِ 4+ 5 َ 6 َ *+ ُ -ِ . / ُّ ! 7 ْ 9 ُ :1َ ; َ <ِّ =ِ >+ 5 َ Indeed, Allah loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify themselves.(Al-Baqarah: 222)
12. Is it necessary to feel guilty? Feel Feeling guilty is normal Check Check our intentions & our actions Correct Make corrections
13. How to overcome the feeling? Remember His Rahmah 01 Allah’s Rahmah is very wide 02 He knows best 03 As long as we have tried 04
14. Patience and Prayers Start doa even before we have kids Keep on praying for the best Allah will test us Keep the faith Stay strong
15. Lessons from the Sunnah
16. The Prophet ﷺ Caring for all kids Children were very close to him He treated children very well
17. Mercy to All Narrated Abu Hurairah (ra): Allah’s Messenger kissed Al-Hasan ibn `Ali while Al-Aqra` ibn Habis At-Tamimi was sitting with him . Al- Aqra` said, “I have ten children and have never kissed one of them.” The Prophet ﷺ cast a look at him and said, “Whoever is not merciful to others will not be treated mercifully.” (Al-Bukhari)
18. Showing & Expressing Love He always asserts his love for Sayyidatina Fatimah r.a. His love for Hassan & Hussain is a known fact
19. Examples of how he ﷺ disciplines children around him Hadith Ya Ghulam Abdullah bin Abbas Hadith on Sadaqah Al-Hassan bin Ali Hadith Umar bin Abi Salamah: Samillah
20. Hadith narrated by Abdullah bin Abbas (r.a.) Abdullah bin Abbas(ra) reports: “One day I was riding (a horse/camel) behind the Prophet ﷺ, when he said, ‘Young man, I will teach you some words. ............’ ”
21. Hadith narrated by Umar bin Abi Salamah (r.a) Narrated Umar bin Abi Salama; "I was a boy under the care of Allah's Messenger ﷺ and my hand used to go around the dish while eating. So Allah Messenger ﷺ said to me: "Oh boy! Mention the name of Allah and eat with your right hand………..”
22. Hadith Narrated by Abi Hurairah (r.a) Abu Hurairah (r.a.) reported: Al-Hasan bin 'Ali (r.a.) took one of the dates of the Sadaqah (charity) and put it in his mouth, whereupon Messenger of Allahﷺ said, "Leave it, leave it, throw it away. Do you not know that we do not eat the Sadaqah (charity)?"
23. Advice on Children Love To Love them Teach To Teach them Care To Care for them