Mentoring: importance, ingredients, intentionality

"Mentoring is rarely about the facts of the deal... But instead is a transfer of emotion and confidence." ~ Seth Godin

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1. MENTORING DJ C H U A N G 9 4 9 - 24 3 - 7 2 6 0 @ DJ C H U A N G DJ C H U A N G . C O M
2. ABOUT MENTORING •  The importance of a mentor •  The ingredients of a mentor •  The intentionality of a mentor
3. BUGGS BUGNON, FRANK MILLER, BRENT WONG
4. PAUL C. CHOU
5. L2 FOUNDATION’S 2001 FORUM
6. ANDY STANLEY
7. PAUL WANG JR.
8. MARC PAYAN
9. EFCA ASIAN AMERICAN PASTORS
10. JEREMIAH CHUANG
11. DJ CHUANG
12. MENTORING: PRACTICUM Walk together to a comfortable place & take turns being a mentor. Suggested topics: •  Success/failure in mentoring •  Life challenges •  New opportunities
13. WHAT IS MENTORING?
14. MENTORING
15. MENTORING ”Mentoring is rarely about the facts of the deal... But instead is a transfer of emotion and confidence.” – Seth Godin
16. MENTORING ”Mentoring is asking good questions… and wasting time.” – Stan Endicott
17. •  Mentor •  Coach •  Trainer •  Counselor •  Teacher •  Experienced •  Discipler •  Confidant •  Advisor •  Father Figure •  Older Brother •  Friend ROLES OF A MENTOR
18. MENTORING CONSTELLATION Experienced Mentors Emerging Mentors External Peer Mentors Internal Peer Mentors from “Connecting: The Mentoring Relationships You Need to Succeed in Life” by Stanley & Clinton
19. MENTORING CONTINUUM from “Connecting: The Mentoring Relationships You Need to Succeed in Life” by Stanley & Clinton “Intensive” mentors “Occasional” mentors “Passive” mentors Disicpler Spiritual guide Coach Counselor Teacher Sponsor Contemporary figures Historical heroes Authors
20. 10 MENTORING ESSENTIALS Praying & Meeting Listening & Asking Affirming & Admonishing Learning & Reflecting Multiplying & Releasing from “The Lost Art of Lingering: Mutual Mentoring for Life Transformation” by Rowland Forman
21. QUESTIONS OF JESUS You of little faith, why are you so afraid? (Matthew 8:26) Why do you worry …? (Matthew 6:28) Can you drink the cup I am going to drink? (Matthew 20:22) Who do you say that I am? (Luke 9:20) Which of these three do you think was a neighbor…? (Luke 10:36) What do you want me to do for you? (Luke 18:41) Do you want to get well? (John 5:6)
22. QUESTIONS FOR A MENTOR •  What have been the greatest successes in your life? •  What were the causes of those successes? •  What were the greatest failures in your life? •  What would you do differently if you were starting over? •  What kind of books do you read? •  How do you manage your time? •  How do you manage your money? •  What have been the greatest lessons you’ve learned? •  What have been the greatest surprises in your life? from “Every Pastor Needs a Mentor” by Rick Warren @ http://pastors.com/you-need-a-mentor-by-rick-warren/
23. MORE COACHING QUESTIONS
24. BOOKS ON MENTORING http://140t.co/mentoring
25. MENTORING DJ C H U A N G 9 4 9 - 24 3 - 7 2 6 0 @ DJ C H U A N G DJ C H U A N G . C O M