develop, and agree to support a decision in the best interest of the whole group or common goal. It is about finding an acceptable resolution, one that can be supported, even if not the "favourite" of each individual.
a proposal aside; • Try to supply an alternative proposal for the blocked one; • Limiting each person's option to block consensus to a handful of times.
your desires; ◦ Avoid words such as "should" or "must", try "I need" instead; and ◦ Avoid generalizations: "always", "never", "often" or "generally"; • Acknowledge your colleagues opinions; ◦ Use mirroring; ◦ Try to ask questions instead of rebuking; ◦ Express where others needs does not meet yours and why;
Use appropriate tone of voice; • Do not disagree with for the sake of disagreeing; • Try to not exaggerate evidence to suit your case; • Focus on ideas rather than people; • Highlight the positives and negatives clearly;
almost of it you are all in; • Ask your self: What is the one thing you would change in order to make this decision one you can support? • Help your colleagues find middle-ground;