Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility

Presentation I used to back my speech on Agile Hong Kong Conference on 17 June 2017.

Transcript

1. 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility” Photo by: Jelena Uljankina
2. “Why is it every time I ask for a pair of hands, they come with a brain attached?” -Henry Ford 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
3. “Why is it every time I ask for a pair of hands, they come with a mind and body (and spirit?) attached?” -Henry Ford & Dariusz Klupi 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
4. Source: http://dilbert.com/strip/2011-05-26 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility” There was a Dilbert strip here, but I am afraid I would be sued for Intellectual Rights infringement should I leave it
5. 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
6. violence 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
7. violence (aggression): causing suffering to other person 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
8. violence (aggression): protective anger turned into attacking force and directed towards a person, a thing or a system 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
9. active aggression 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
10. active aggression 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
11. passive aggression 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
12. passive aggression 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
13. 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
14. NVC @ workplace 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
15. NVC (feelings, requests) @ workplace (observations, needs) 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
16. NVC (feelings, requests) @ workplace (observations, needs) 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
17. NVC (feelings, requests) @ workplace (observations, needs) 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
18. bigger choice 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
19. bigger choice > COMPLIANCE > COMMITMENT 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
20. more complexity you can work with 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
21. mindsets 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
22. Pluralist, Relativistic SELF-QUESTIONING MIND Expert, Achiever, Self-Conscious SELF-AUTHORING MIND Diplomat, Conformist SOCIALISED MIND Opportunist, Self Protective EGOISTIC MIND Instinctive, Impulsive CHILDISH MIND Strategist, Integrative SELF-TRANSFORMING MIND CAPACITY TO CARE FOR PEOPLE AND SYSTEMS & COMPLEXITY YOU EMBRACE Unitive, Kosmocentric ALL EMBRACING MIND Inspired by work of: www.integrallife.com 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
23. Unitive, Kosmocentric ALL EMBRACING MIND Pluralist, Relativistic SELF-QUESTIONING MIND Expert, Achiever, Self-Conscious SELF-AUTHORING MIND Diplomat, Conformist SOCIALISED MIND Opportunist, Self Protective EGOISTIC MIND Instinctive, Impulsive CHILDISH MIND Strategist, Integrative SELF-TRANSFORMING MIND CAPACITY TO CARE FOR PEOPLE AND SYSTEMS & COMPLEXITY YOU EMBRACE Waterfall Inspired by work of: www.integrallife.com 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
24. Unitive, Kosmocentric ALL EMBRACING MIND Pluralist, Relativistic SELF-QUESTIONING MIND Expert, Achiever, Self-Conscious SELF-AUTHORING MIND Diplomat, Conformist SOCIALISED MIND Opportunist, Self Protective EGOISTIC MIND Instinctive, Impulsive CHILDISH MIND Strategist, Integrative SELF-TRANSFORMING MIND CAPACITY TO CARE FOR PEOPLE AND SYSTEMS & COMPLEXITY YOU EMBRACE Waterfall Agile Inspired by work of: www.integrallife.com 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
25. Unitive, Kosmocentric ALL EMBRACING MIND Pluralist, Relativistic SELF-QUESTIONING MIND Expert, Achiever, Self-Conscious SELF-AUTHORING MIND Diplomat, Conformist SOCIALISED MIND Opportunist, Self Protective EGOISTIC MIND Instinctive, Impulsive CHILDISH MIND Strategist, Integrative SELF-TRANSFORMING MIND CAPACITY TO CARE FOR PEOPLE AND SYSTEMS & COMPLEXITY YOU EMBRACE Waterfall Agile NVC Inspired by work of: www.integrallife.com 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
26. samples 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
27. emographs 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
28. emographs 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
29. emographs 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
30. anger Source: Karla McLaren; Art of Emotions 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
31. anxiety Source: Karla McLaren; Art of Emotions 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
32. What YOU can do? 17 June 2017 | Hong Kong Agile Conference #ahk2017 Dariusz Klupi | „Nonviolent Communication Boosts Agility”
33. Sources: • Integral Institute – www.integrallife.com • Nonviolent Communication – www.cnvc.org • Karla McLaren – karlamclaren.com Compiled, mixed and served by: Dariusz Klupi mezzanit@gmail.com dariusz.klupi@why-innovation.com Available on LinkedIn and Facebook under real name
34. About the map; based on >40 years of research of • Don Beck and Christopher Cowan - Spiral Dynamics - organizational psychology - evolutionary human development model • Abraham Maslow - development of human needs • Jean Gebser - Worldviews • Jean Piaget - Cognitive Capacities • Clare W. Graves - Values - human development • Lawrence Kohlberg, Carol Gilligan - moral development • Jane Loevinger - self-identity, "frameworks of meaning-making" • James Fowler - developmental process in "human faith" • Susan Cook-Greuter, Robert Kegan - maturity of leadership, Harvard University; adult learning Bold – co-founders of Integral Institute; founder: Ken Wilber