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Shaving my head made me a better programmer (ND...

Shaving my head made me a better programmer (NDC Oslo 2019)

(Given at NDC Oslo on June 20, 2019)

How do perceptions and stereotypes affect those in software and on engineering teams? I used to believe that code had no gender or race. That "good code" was good code and talented developers would always succeed in the meritocracy of the tech industry. This talk tells the true story of how repeated experiences of sexual discrimination and harassment led me to hack my appearance by shaving my head to change the way I was perceived as a programmer. I will also share the lessons I have learned from my work as an advocate for racial and gender equity in tech and how you can apply them within your organizations and communities.

Alex Qin

June 20, 2019
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  1. it felt like I was hyper visible and invisible at

    the same time @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  2. Do you have a boyfriend?
 
 Do you like to

    dress sexy for him? @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  3. why do I love code if code doesn’t love me

    back? @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  4. When I cut my hair short, I stopped getting sexually

    harassed at tech events. @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  5. Cut your hair. Become a BAD ASS. Be more of

    a bitch. Learn to ignore it. @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  6. you shouldn’t have to 
 change who you are 


    to do what you love 1. @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  7. “I am not free while any woman 
 is unfree,

    even when her shackles 
 are very different from my own.” 
 - Audre Lorde “No one is free until we are all free” 
 - Martin Luther King, Jr. @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  8. “I drove him, drove them all, 
 to be first,

    be bold, be perfect—be the greatest. 
 What I did not do was drive them 
 to be whole, to be free. ” 
 Casey Gerald @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  9. “Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”

    Martin Luther King, Jr. @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  10. tech is not a meritocracy
 
 excellence in code can

    come from anyone we all deserve to 
 be here, be safe, and thrive 
 no matter what body we were born in @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  11. “We heal ourselves, 
 and we heal in relationship, 


    and from that place, simultaneously, 
 we create more space for healed communities, healed movements, 
 healed worlds.” 
 adrienne maree brown @alexqin . #ndcoslo .
  12. “At this point, we have all of the information we

    need to create a change; it isn’t a matter of facts. It’s a matter of longing, having the will to imagine and implement something else.” 
 adrienne maree brown @alexqin . #ndcoslo .