P E O P L E TA L K A B O U T IT T H E Y U S UA L LY M E N T I O N • High salary • Interesting work • Career opportunities • High-end technologies • Nice and cozy office • Good colleagues • Ability to travel • Relocation
Interesting work • Career opportunities • High-end technologies • Nice and cozy office • Good colleagues • Ability to travel • Relocation W H E N P E O P L E TA L K A B O U T IT T H E Y U S UA L LY D O N O T M E N T I O N • Always learn to stay competitive • Often monotonous work • Learn more to stay competitive • Sometimes legacy code • It’s ok to work 24/7 • Sometimes toxic stuff • What if you don’t like travelling • New stress in new country =
working is stressful • Job dissatisfaction • Poor social life • Poor health • No obsession with work • Work is fun • Autonomous regulation • Good social relations • Good health Engagement Workaholism
Helplessness • Loss of hope/ideas • Main damage: emotional • Life makes no sense • Over-engagement • Over-reactive emotions • Hyperactivity • Loss of energy • Main damage: physical • Premature aging Stress Burnout
LACK OF CONTROL • LACK OF RECOGNITION • UNCLARITY • MONOTONY • LACK OF CHALLENGE • BE EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE (YES PERSON) • CHAOS • HIGH-PRESSURE ENVIRONMENT • HIGH WORKLOAD
OF SOCIALIZATION • LACK OF RELAXATION • LACK OF CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS • TOO MANY RESPONSIBILITIES • NO HELP FROM OTHERS • LACK OF SLEEP • LACK OF HOBBIES • BAD HABITS IN EATING • STAYING INDOORS OFTEN
Isolation yourself • Procrastinating • Using food, drugs or alco to cope • Taking your frustration on others • Skipping work • Coming to work too early • Staying at work too late
exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It occurs when you feel overwhelmed and unable to meet constant demands. As the stress continues, you begin to lose the interest or motivation that led you to take on a certain role in the first place.
ACCEPT THINGS YOU CAN’T CONTROL • BE ASSERTIVE • LEARN HOW TO RELAX • EXERCISE REGULARLY • EAT HEALTHY • MANAGE YOUR TIME • HOBBIES • SLEEP MORE • SOCIAL SUPPORT • DON’T RELY ON ALCOHOL
WILL NOT HAPPEN IF I DO X ? WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DO NOT X ? WHAT WILL NOT HAPPEN IF I DO NOT X ? 4 Cartesian questions I WA N T A N D I H AV E I WA N T B U T I D O N ’ T H AV E I D O N ’ T WA N T A N D I H AV E I D O N ’ T WA N T A N D I D O N ` T H AV E