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HugOps4Humans: Self-Care to Community Care-giving

HugOps4Humans: Self-Care to Community Care-giving

Statistics show that Americans are experiencing the highest levels of stress in a decade. With new challenges like COVID-19 and the added social isolation and personal productivity challenges of remote work, the stress levels are even higher. In this talk, I go through my own journey of self-care.

The analogy to "HugOps" is this. Humans are complex systems that need continuous availability despite unpredictable stressors. By observing your own "system", you can detect the things that stress you and figure out strategies to help control or cope with them when they occur. And you can also devise comfort strategies that increase your threshold for resilience agnostic to the kind of stressors you face.

The bigger takeaway from HugOps is this. It is not enough to just fix your system when you figure out the problem. You need too share your solutions so others can use it to improve their own resilience. More importantly, if you see someone having these issues, have empathy. And if you have the resources (time, health) to do so -- lend a hand to help them overcome their challenges. Self-care is also a privilege that not everyone has resources for. Community care-giving ensures we help each other in these difficult times

Nitya Narasimhan, PhD

June 30, 2020
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  1. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    @nitya
    #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista
    HugOps For
    Humans
    Self-Care to
    Community Care-giving
    June 30, 2020
    Nitya Narasimhan, PhD | #Flutterista #HugOps4Humans | @nitya
    Image Credit: Noun Project

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  2. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
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    #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista

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    @nitya
    #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista

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  4. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya

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  5. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista

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  6. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista

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  7. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Self Care
    can help you manage
    your stress better
    Image Credit: Unsplash
    Community Care
    is about sharing
    the burdens together

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  8. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    https://www.statuspage.io/hugops

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  9. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Complex
    Systems
    Unpredictable
    Stressors
    Continuous
    Availability
    Observability
    Detect patterns = warning
    Empathy
    Embrace failures = learning
    Communication
    Share learnings = growing
    CONTEXT CULTURE
    DEVOPS HUGOPS

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  10. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Complex
    Systems
    Unpredictable
    Stressors
    Continuous
    Availability
    Observability
    Detect patterns = warning
    Empathy
    Embrace failures = learning
    Communication
    Share learnings = growing
    CONTEXT CULTURE
    DEVOPS HUGOPS
    Human-Ops

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  11. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Know Your Enemy
    Let’s talk about stress
    Image Credit: Unsplash
    Acute Stress
    Episodic Stress
    Chronic Stress

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  12. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Allostatic Load
    Cumulative Wear and Tear..
    Image Credit: Unsplash
    ..on the body can cause
    permanent
    changes to brain architecture and
    reduce
    ability to cope with future
    uncertainity

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  13. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Stress
    Our body’s response to
    perceived threats to mental
    or physical well-being
    Image Credit: Unsplash
    Adaptive
    Stress Response
    our built-in survival instincts
    adrenaline (fight or flight)
    cortisol (alert, persistence)

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  14. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Learn
    TRIGGERS
    Manage
    RESPONSES
    Share
    BURDENS
    How can we effect change?
    Refactor our
    behaviors
    Revitalize our
    communities
    Psychological
    Environmental
    Physiological
    Social
    Anger
    Fear
    Insecurity
    Anxiety
    Ask for Help
    Offer Help
    Share Stories
    Give Feedback

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  15. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Learn Triggers
    ENVIRONMENTAL
    PHYSIOLOGICAL
    PSYCHOLOGICAL
    SOCIAL
    Pollution
    & Toxins
    Food &
    Drink
    Illness &
    Sleep
    Injury &
    Disability
    Family &
    Friends
    Social
    Media
    Self Esteem

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  16. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Image Credit: Unsplash
    Stress vs. Self-Esteem
    A destructive cycle
    Manage
    STRESS
    CONTROL
    STRATEGIES
    Mitigate
    RESPONSES
    COPING
    STRATEGIES
    Boost
    SELF-ESTEEM
    COMFORT
    STRATEGIES
    Manage Responses

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  17. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    MANAGE STRESS
    Control Strategies
    Image Credit: @nitya
    time-based triggers
    #30Days
    Food
    Sleep
    Exercise
    “Bundling Habits”

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  18. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    MANAGE STRESS
    Control Strategies
    Image Credit: @nitya
    space-based triggers
    #Declutter
    Social Media
    Workspace
    Memorabilia
    “Does it spark joy?”

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  19. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    MITIGATE RESPONSES
    Coping Strategies
    Image Credit: @nitya
    cultivate calm
    #Refocus
    Sketching
    Meditation
    Knitting
    “Be Present”

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  20. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    MITIGATE RESPONSES
    Coping Strategies
    Image Credit: @nitya
    support systems
    #Ally-Up
    Run Interference
    Collective Bargaining
    Moral Support
    Accept help!

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  21. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    BOOST ESTEEM
    Comfort Strategies
    Image Credit: @nitya
    celebrate milestones
    #GratefulFor
    Anniversaries
    Successes
    Failures
    Acknowledge wins!

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  22. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    BOOST ESTEEM
    Comfort Strategies
    Image Credit: @nitya
    know yourself
    #SelfAcceptance
    Culture (by birth)
    Nurture (by upbringing)
    Venture (by choice)

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  23. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    BOOST ESTEEM
    Comfort Strategies
    Image Credit: @nitya
    value yourself
    #SelfAppreciation
    Embrace achievements
    Embrace failures
    Champion yourself
    Practice saying..
    Thank You when complimented
    I (not we) when you did the work
    No thanks to emotional labor
    Yes thanks when offered leadership roles
    My turn when overlooked for opinions
    Mine too when overlooked for rewards
    It happens! on facing failures

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  24. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    BOOST ESTEEM
    Comfort Strategies
    Image Credit: @nitya
    grow yourself
    #SelfAppraisal
    Focus
    Feedback
    Forgiveness
    FOCUS
    Set clear goals
    Make concrete plans
    FEEDBACK
    Ask for help
    Trust (but verify)
    FORGIVENESS
    Assess mistakes
    Then move on

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  25. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista
    Self-Care
    Put on your
    oxygen
    mask first
    Image Credit: Unsplash

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  26. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista
    Self Care to
    Community
    Care-giving
    Self-care
    cannot solve
    systemic
    issues!
    Credit: Flare.com / April 2019

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  27. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    We need to destigmatize
    burdening others,
    normalize asking for help, and
    challenge ableism
    “Beyond Self-Care Bubble Baths: A Vision for Community Care”
    ~ Abeni Jones (Jul 2017)

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  28. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Self-care is a
    self-esteem issue.
    It needs introspection
    Self-care is a
    community issue
    It has ripple effects
    with global impact
    Self-care is a
    marathon
    It needs resilience.
    Self-care is a
    privilege today
    Extend yours to those
    who need it more

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  29. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    Self-Care to Community Care-giving
    Stress
    Anxiety
    Depression
    Break the
    Stress, Self
    Esteem Cycle
    CONTROL
    30-Days
    Declutter
    Help yourself
    Ask for help
    Help others
    COPE
    Refocus
    Ally-Up
    COMFORT
    Celebration
    Self-Acceptance
    Self-Appreciation
    Self-Appraisal

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  30. #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista @nitya
    @nitya
    #HugOps4Humans / #Flutterista
    Thank You!
    Slides: https://bit.ly/2020-06-HugOps4Humans
    Work In Progress:
    Site: https://selfcare.dev
    Nitya Narasimhan, PhD | @nitya | #HugOps4Humans

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